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really hard times & Gods plan - 11/7/2008 11:35:59 AM
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RamiRedeemed
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Ever go through a very difficult and painful situation and pray and pray and the situation just gets worse? I'm trying to have faith that it will all work out and that good comes from all things, but i'm getting tired. So tired. The situation is now ridiculously out of control and I'm soooooooooooo hurt, it's getting more difficult to have faith and im getting angry. It all seems so hopeless, especially since the only one who can fix it is God and I don't see Him moving. My question... has anyone gone through something like this, where it just kept getting worse BUT in the end you saw what the purpose was? I guess what I'm asking for is testimonies from people who have been there and can testify that God saw them through and that the ending result was so worth the trial.
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/7/2008 12:17:47 PM
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Well, maybe it's a bit different than what you might experience, but....Jesus Christ has answered my prayer recently. I got a backpain for quite awhile, and He fixed my problem just like that!!! Last week, I fell down the stair in the subway (it was kind of slippery during rainy days) on my way home. My position was like : my right knee and right palm hitting the floor. My knee hurt a bit, but then....feeling no pain on my back anymore!!! Until now, I really feel that it's God's miraculous healing power that has touched me. That's my testimony & I thank Jesus for it, amen.
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/7/2008 12:26:32 PM
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ORIGINAL: RamiRedeemed Ever go through a very difficult and painful situation and pray and pray and the situation just gets worse? I'm trying to have faith that it will all work out and that good comes from all things, but i'm getting tired. So tired. The situation is now ridiculously out of control and I'm soooooooooooo hurt, it's getting more difficult to have faith and im getting angry. It all seems so hopeless, especially since the only one who can fix it is God and I don't see Him moving. My question... has anyone gone through something like this, where it just kept getting worse BUT in the end you saw what the purpose was? I guess what I'm asking for is testimonies from people who have been there and can testify that God saw them through and that the ending result was so worth the trial. God's Word is sufficeint for His children; (Rom 5:1) Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ: (Rom 5:2) By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God. (Rom 5:3) And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; (Rom 5:4) And patience, experience; and experience, hope: (Rom 5:5) And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us. And (Rom 8:28) And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. And (1Co 10:13) There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it. But nothing will be more than we can bear though Jesus Christ for the promise is; (Php 4:13) I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me. And then there is always the possibility that God has made a way of escape does not suit us, and we just do not want to take the way made for us. Thanks RC
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/7/2008 2:24:56 PM
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Whoo, boy, yes! My family has been going through a trial that I'm not free to talk about because it involves others, but it has just gotten worse and worse. And now it's incapable of resolution, none of it though fault of our own. We just have to accept the situation and go on with our lives. My family is all fine, just sad at others' losses. The cost to us was significant but not overwhelming. The bottom line? God allowed it to happen, and is weaving His tapestry with consumate skill. All we see is the back, with threads of sorrow and loss criss-crossed with threads of love and caring, apparently in a big mess. When we see the other side in heaven (the "picture side") there will be a glorious montage of love, grace and God's gifts, and every stitch will be perfect. Meanwhile, we have to depend on knowing that God doesn't waste anything good and great good will come from this. So we rejoice by faith that the end will be good. We aren't going to tire ourselves out waiting to find out what He did; our job is to soldier on and obey orders. Later we'll know the "why." A good example of this was the brutal execution of an innocent Man 2000 years ago - great good came out of it! It changed the world, and changed your world. To God be the glory!
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/7/2008 2:39:00 PM
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ORIGINAL: RamiRedeemed Ever go through a very difficult and painful situation and pray and pray and the situation just gets worse? I'm trying to have faith that it will all work out and that good comes from all things, but i'm getting tired. So tired. The situation is now ridiculously out of control and I'm soooooooooooo hurt, it's getting more difficult to have faith and im getting angry. It all seems so hopeless, especially since the only one who can fix it is God and I don't see Him moving. My question... has anyone gone through something like this, where it just kept getting worse BUT in the end you saw what the purpose was? I guess what I'm asking for is testimonies from people who have been there and can testify that God saw them through and that the ending result was so worth the trial. Romans 18:18 18 For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us. God allows us to pass through trials in order that He can reveal His glory in and through our lives. Noone likes to suffer trials (and we often wish they would be over quickly) but we would never experience the glory of God in our lives if we did not go through such. For over 15 months now, I have been in one of the worst storms in my life and it is not over yet. However, rather than allow myself to become overwhelmed and disheartened, I have encouraged myself through God's Word; prayed God's Word; spoken God's Word into my situation and spoken faith words despite how I have been feeling. The Lord has also taught me the value of praising Him in the midst of my difficulty (once again despite my feelings because oftentimes, I have not 'felt' like doing this, however, I obeyed and brought God my sacrifice of praise and He has never failed to lift me above my circumstances). My feelings have often overwhelmed me (as you are experiencing at this time) and when this happens, I 'run to the Rock which is higher than I' and bury myself in Him (in the ways which I have just aforementioned). There comes a point where you can thank God for what He has allowed to touch your life with because of the beautiful Scriptural truths He teaches you as a result of the trial and these are precious and priceless. I would encourage you to perservere. The Lord knows how much you can bare and 'yes' - although my own personal situation is still ongoing (and I cannot forsee an end), what I have allowed the Lord to teach me in the midst of this situation has been such a blessing that it has taken the 'sting' out of much of the trial. Finally, please be encouraged that whatever you are facing right now - no matter what it is, "this too shall pass." God bless.
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/7/2008 3:41:19 PM
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Whatever is happening to you right now, God is still in control. He knows what you're going through and He will not abandon you. Just trust Him. And thank Him for still being in control I'm going through a difficult time right now. I keep repeating - Thy will be done. I can't control what is going on - but I know someone who can. God.
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/7/2008 5:21:28 PM
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I think everybody will probably say yes to your question in one way or another. Years ago we were in the middle or our son's drug abuse. My husband and I took him to a substance abuse program and he got much better right away. It was so good to see him making better choices--but it happened so quickly that I felt the other shoe was about to drop. And it did. He went right back into his former ways. I was devastated. I asked God over and over why He let me see hope just to dash it all to bits again. Wouldn't it have been better (like I know better) to have never seen the hope of my son leaving his drug abuse behind)? I wrestled with this for months and it drove me to depression. Eventually, though, I was reading a devotional reading one day and God spoke to me through the words on that page. Sometimes God gives us a glimpse of the future to give us hope. I really felt peace after reading the devotional that my son would be okay--in the future. The future is today and he is well. I am so grateful. So, yes, there is purpose to be gleaned sometimes many years later. The old hindsight is 50/50 cliche. It's so true.
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/7/2008 8:29:13 PM
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ORIGINAL: RamiRedeemed Ever go through a very difficult and painful situation and pray and pray and the situation just gets worse? I'm trying to have faith that it will all work out and that good comes from all things, but i'm getting tired. So tired. The situation is now ridiculously out of control and I'm soooooooooooo hurt, it's getting more difficult to have faith and im getting angry. It all seems so hopeless, especially since the only one who can fix it is God and I don't see Him moving. My question... has anyone gone through something like this, where it just kept getting worse BUT in the end you saw what the purpose was? I guess what I'm asking for is testimonies from people who have been there and can testify that God saw them through and that the ending result was so worth the trial. I am going through something similar right now. I know these times can really wear a person out, when it seems like the whole world is against you. I believe we all experience moments like these in our lives. I think if we didn't we would become too complacent in our beliefs. Everything can't always come up roses for us just because we believe in God. We can't always be happy and spread God's love, though we like to think we can, that just isn't realistic. If my faith wasn't constantly being tested, I would think perhaps it was not real. I have learned when going through these times, even if my faith seems to shrink to the size of a mustard seed it is still great enough to move mountains. I also remind myself Mother Theresa went 50 years without feeling the presence of God, but he was there nonetheless. I know during these times I have to stay strong, never give up and thrown in the towel. Even though things might not work out like I want them too, I know I will be alright in time. I may not always be able to feel God's presence but he assures me throughout his word that he is there.
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/7/2008 11:49:25 PM
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ORIGINAL: deermousie ......The bottom line? God allowed it to happen, and is weaving His tapestry with consumate skill. All we see is the back, with threads of sorrow and loss criss-crossed with threads of love and caring, apparently in a big mess. When we see the other side in heaven (the "picture side") there will be a glorious montage of love, grace and God's gifts, and every stitch will be perfect. Meanwhile, we have to depend on knowing that God doesn't waste anything good and great good will come from this. So we rejoice by faith that the end will be good. We aren't going to tire ourselves out waiting to find out what He did; our job is to soldier on and obey orders. Later we'll know the "why." A good example of this was the brutal execution of an innocent Man 2000 years ago - great good came out of it! It changed the world, and changed your world. To God be the glory! This is so encouraging deermousie - particularly the last paragraph. Please encourage yourself in this RamiRedeemed Bless you, Little_1. Sometimes I forget, too, and have to go back to the Source. You just reminded me to do it again!
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/8/2008 1:50:55 AM
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My question... has anyone gone through something like this, where it just kept getting worse BUT in the end you saw what the purpose was? I guess what I'm asking for is testimonies from people who have been there and can testify that God saw them through and that the ending result was so worth the trial. Rami, I don't mean to sound glib or flippant, but have you ever read Job? Chances are no testimony of suffering and confusion here can hold a candle to that one.
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/8/2008 9:18:13 AM
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Yes, Job and I are great friends haha! I never liked that book until recently, the same with Psalms. Those two books are getting me through at this point. Thanks everyone for the replies. Hopefully this will all be over soon and my story will become a testimony as well. I did last night see a little peice of what is going on and how it will benefit me so I'm clinging to that.
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/8/2008 10:16:14 AM
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You know how some people talk about having "one of those days", I've often joked (although not completely) to having "one of those lives". I couldn't even begin to start to lay out the details of some of the things I've gone through over the past several years. Honestly, I've lost any confidence in the decency of people, which I suppose should have never been there in the first place knowing the wretched state of man. It's only when we go through some of these trying times do we really get a view of what God sees without the covering of Jesus. Unfortunately (fortunately -- rejoice in your trials), the more determined I am to follow Jesus path the tougher, more winding, rocky, mine-field laden it's gotten. There is a reason it's considered the narrow road. Sometimes you wonder why you travel down such a trecherous road only then you view a mountain view or a sunset that helps make sense of it all -- but fortifided you continue down the path that leads to Jesus. But yes, seeing the true evil and those who would rather blindly ignore it than put themselves in the line of fire --it really disheartens me to man's condition. There is a reason the Nazi's were able to murder so many while the masses stood by and watched.
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/8/2008 12:28:40 PM
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ORIGINAL: mvic I'm going through a difficult time right now. I keep repeating - Thy will be done. Oh, Mvic, that's what I found myself doing, too - praying for God's perfect will to be done, no matter what it was, because it would be the best. Sometimes God's will is like eating sushi - the stomach says it looks like raw fish but the head knows it's nutritious food. So we tell the stomach to shut up and we eat it. Turns out it's delicious, but our eyes would never have figured that out. May God resolve the hard time you are going through and may you be leaping in joy at His provision! Kmangel said quote:
The future is today and he is well. I am so grateful. That's wonderful, Kmangel! I praise God for restoring your son! <backflips> Campbe33 said quote:
Even though things might not work out like I want them too, I know I will be alright in time. I may not always be able to feel God's presence but he assures me throughout his word that he is there. I think God must use hard times to cut away the dirt and take us down to bedrock, and Campbe just nailed it. When all we have left is Him, then we have all we need. It hurts like crazy getting there, but then there is peace and assurance that it's going to end well. And it will. When we all meet at the foot of God's throne, what stories we'll have to tell each other of His grace. Meanwhile, we support and love one another and God is glorified. I am praying for you, Campbe33, and everyone else on this thread by name right now. May His perfect will be done! <backflips>
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/8/2008 12:52:41 PM
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I did go through something like that 10 years ago, which lasted for 4 years. I don't know how I got through it. I wasn't a practicing Christian. I knew about God, and even went to church, but I didn't have a personal relationship with God. My belief then was if I wasn't a good Chrsitian girl, God wouldn't have anything to do with me. Luckily, the church I went to dealt with inner transformation, rather than outward behaviour and performances. Through out the years, God softened my heart and allowed me to see Him for the Loving God that He truly was. Honestly, I was a mess back then, but because I had a little child to take care of, it kept me sane and held me together. When I look back, I see that God handed an extra grace to me for me to make it one day at a time. I don't know how else I could have done it without falling apart. I guess, it was good that I didnt' have any expectation from God as it kept me from being bitter and cynical about Him. Now, I find that the more I know Him, there are things that gets easier, but there are things that gets tough because of some expectations I have of HIm. I'm sure He'll remove them in His time. Hang in there, girl. I'm here if you want to talk. PM me anytime.
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/8/2008 1:07:04 PM
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ORIGINAL: RamiRedeemed Ever go through a very difficult and painful situation and pray and pray and the situation just gets worse? I'm trying to have faith that it will all work out and that good comes from all things, but i'm getting tired. So tired. The situation is now ridiculously out of control and I'm soooooooooooo hurt, it's getting more difficult to have faith and im getting angry. It all seems so hopeless, especially since the only one who can fix it is God and I don't see Him moving. My question... has anyone gone through something like this, where it just kept getting worse BUT in the end you saw what the purpose was? I guess what I'm asking for is testimonies from people who have been there and can testify that God saw them through and that the ending result was so worth the trial. Hi Rami.. I can completely relate to everything you are feeling, and I was thinking about starting a thread on the very same issue :) I have been walking this firey trial for almost 6 months now....I have good days and I have "horrible" days!! Here recently, the devil has really tried to make me question God and feel angry toward Him, and thats something that is very hard to admit, I almost feel ashamed by it, but I know without a doubt, God knows my heart and He knows that I love Him more than life itself! He continues to remind me daily, that He is here with me and He will not forsake me. I may not always "feel" that way, but I "know." Someone mentioned Job....that is so very true, when I have tough days, I try to keep Job in mind. I know the Lord will see me through this, and He will you as well. I keep in mind, that He can take any situation, turn it around for our good, and for His glory! I have read in the Bible and heard so many people say, "Rejoice in your trials." I thought, "How in the world can I do that but did it anyway." LOL....But one day, driving down the road alone, a song came on, cant remember for sure which one it was, but the very moment I heard the words, it all made sense to me and all I could do was cry, because I knew the Lord had spoke to me, and made it all very clear. Its been during my trial, that the Lord has really drawn me closer to Him, revealing to me His true love, patience, grace and strength for me. I know, the trial that Im walking today, that its been Him who has carried me, He is teaching me to trust Him and to rest in His peace, and He has perfect timing for everything. Im learning patience, endurance and perseverance.....and one day, I will be able to help someone who is being faced with the very same issues. We can tell others to trust God, and thats easy to say, but until we are faced with situations, its only then that we can assure them, that He wont fail them. Im praying for you Rami.
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/8/2008 1:55:50 PM
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Been through hard times and good times but love the hard times more, for in them I am drawn to Chirst like at no other time. In the end of time we will look back at the hardest of times and say, In the light of the glory that is about to be revealed in us, it was nothing! I will ware them as badges of faith and love in Christ. It is almost as if in the hard times we can really begin to see the power and potential of the gospel in Christ and we rejoice.Nevertheless, I have learnt that sometimes it is better to do nothing and then again sometimes better to do something about it, for I have seen many destroyed simply because they did not do what had to be done and do it quickly and well. I remember a boy on hearing his teacher call his name say, "What! I have done anything!" And that was the whole problem, he hadn't done anything. What I am saying is, after I have done all I can in any situation, I rest in the presence of God until I hear from Him that I have to do otherwise. In this, there is no condemnation for I am in Christ.
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/8/2008 2:06:51 PM
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ORIGINAL: terryjohn Been through hard times and good times but love the hard times more, for in them I am drawn to Chirst like at no other time. In the end of time we will look back at the hardest of times and say, In the light of the glory that is about to be revealed in us, it was nothing! I will ware them as badges of faith and love in Christ. It is almost as if in the hard times we can really begin to see the power and potential of the gospel in Christ and we rejoice.Nevertheless, I have learnt that sometimes it is better to do nothing and then again sometimes better to do something about it, for I have seen many destroyed simply because they did not do what had to be done and do it quickly and well. I remember a boy on hearing his teacher call his name say, "What! I have done anything!" And that was the whole problem, he hadn't done anything. What I am saying is, after I have done all I can in any situation, I rest in the presence of God until I hear from Him that I have to do otherwise. In this, there is no condemnation for I am in Christ. Amen!
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/9/2008 12:16:06 PM
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ORIGINAL: RamiRedeemed Ever go through a very difficult and painful situation and pray and pray and the situation just gets worse? I'm trying to have faith that it will all work out and that good comes from all things, but i'm getting tired. So tired. The situation is now ridiculously out of control and I'm soooooooooooo hurt, it's getting more difficult to have faith and im getting angry. It all seems so hopeless, especially since the only one who can fix it is God and I don't see Him moving. My question... has anyone gone through something like this, where it just kept getting worse BUT in the end you saw what the purpose was? I guess what I'm asking for is testimonies from people who have been there and can testify that God saw them through and that the ending result was so worth the trial. I've been through many painful and difficult times in my life. I am currently facing one now where I can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. But, I know the light is there. It's the light of the Lord's love. So often I cry out to Jesus, telling him that I am weary and it's difficult to face another day. I could never get through the day without Jesus. Whether times are good or bad, I need Him. And He is faithful. He gives me the strength I need for each day. He gives me hope. Psalm 73:26 My health may fail, and my spirit may grow weak, but God remains the strength of my heart; he is mine forever.
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/9/2008 12:41:36 PM
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ORIGINAL: RamiRedeemed Ever go through a very difficult and painful situation and pray and pray and the situation just gets worse? I'm trying to have faith that it will all work out and that good comes from all things, but i'm getting tired. So tired. The situation is now ridiculously out of control and I'm soooooooooooo hurt, it's getting more difficult to have faith and im getting angry. It all seems so hopeless, especially since the only one who can fix it is God and I don't see Him moving. My question... has anyone gone through something like this, where it just kept getting worse BUT in the end you saw what the purpose was? I guess what I'm asking for is testimonies from people who have been there and can testify that God saw them through and that the ending result was so worth the trial. I've been through many painful and difficult times in my life. I am currently facing one now where I can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. But, I know the light is there. It's the light of the Lord's love. So often I cry out to Jesus, telling him that I am weary and it's difficult to face another day. I could never get through the day without Jesus. Whether times are good or bad, I need Him. And He is faithful. He gives me the strength I need for each day. He gives me hope. Psalm 73:26 My health may fail, and my spirit may grow weak, but God remains the strength of my heart; he is mine forever. I just want you to know, that reading your post, I could feel the love you have for the Lord, and I understand what you mean, when you say there are times you dont think you could face another day......I have felt the same way, and here recently, please know, Im praying for you.
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/9/2008 8:33:53 PM
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2 Corinthians 11:24-26 24 From the Jews five times I received forty stripes minus one. 25 Three times I was beaten with rods; once I was stoned; three times I was shipwrecked; a night and a day I have been in the deep; 26 in journeys often, in perils of waters, in perils of robbers, in perils of my own countrymen, in perils of the Gentiles, in perils in the city, in perils in the wilderness, in perils in the sea, in perils among false brethren; Hebrews 12:3-11 10 But I rejoiced in the Lord greatly that now at last your care for me has flourished again; though you surely did care, but you lacked opportunity. 11 Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content: 12 I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. 13 I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Hebrews 12:3-11 3 For consider Him who endured such hostility from sinners against Himself, lest you become weary and discouraged in your souls. 4 You have not yet resisted to bloodshed, striving against sin. 5 And you have forgotten the exhortation which speaks to you as to sons: “ My son, do not despise the chastening of the LORD, Nor be discouraged when you are rebuked by Him; 6 For whom the LORD loves He chastens, And scourges every son whom He receives.” 7 If you endure chastening, God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom a father does not chasten? 8 But if you are without chastening, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate and not sons. 9 Furthermore, we have had human fathers who corrected us, and we paid them respect. Shall we not much more readily be in subjection to the Father of spirits and live? 10 For they indeed for a few days chastened us as seemed best to them, but He for our profit, that we may be partakers of His holiness. 11 Now no chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it. I hope you can find encouragement from these words, especially from these... "nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it." Trust in the Lord and do good. Know that He works all things for the good to those who love the Lord, for those who are called according to His purpose. "Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness and all these things will be added to you." Do you know how much God loves you? You must understand that He loves you with a perfect love so that you can love Him in return enough to want whatever somes to you from His hand. He is sovereign and He is your Father and He will work all things for the good in your life. He will let things come into your life so that you can grow and produce fruit... the peacable fruit of righteousness... just trust Him and wait on Him. James 1:2-4 2 My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, 3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. 4 But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing. God is going to perfect your faith... J
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/9/2008 8:49:50 PM
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manda59
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When we have difficult times, we just want God to sort it out for us. But sometimes He has far more in mind than we can imagine, and this might involve using the situation to change us, or to teach us new ways of dealing with situations. He can turn *any* curse into a blessing, if we let Him. The secret is to let Him have His way, not to try and decide how and when *we* think things should be done. I guess that's why Scripture tells us to WAIT on Him.
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/9/2008 9:13:24 PM
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ORIGINAL: manda59 When we have difficult times, we just want God to sort it out for us. But sometimes He has far more in mind than we can imagine, and this might involve using the situation to change us, or to teach us new ways of dealing with situations. He can turn *any* curse into a blessing, if we let Him. The secret is to let Him have His way, not to try and decide how and when *we* think things should be done. I guess that's why Scripture tells us to WAIT on Him. That's exactly why I welcome the difficult times, though I might not enjoy them. I always learn something from them, that I can turn around and share with others. These times help me to continually grow spiritually and not become stagnant during the good times.
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RE: really hard times & Gods plan - 11/9/2008 9:52:06 PM
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Hello RamiRedeemed I've gone through some horrendous developments in my life. Most of them were caused by me, my flesh, my lack of a close relationship with the Lord. But I keep studying the Word and keep on seeking the Lord. Now if we sit in dread that nothing will ever happen, then we can easily miss a moving of the Lord. It certainly helps to be filled with the Holy Spirit periodically and worship Him on a regular basis. Those things help us to be in God's presence where there is fulness of joy and eternal pleasures at His right hand.
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