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my worries -- - 3/19/2008 2:57:43 AM   
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i had a problem where i had let a guy i could trust to let him stay at my home 6 days so he had a place to be at and then paid for his motel room before he stayed in it that night friday and was generous to him--
And because i used MY yahoo instant messenger in his name but clarified it was me to talking to someone online he went ballistic and after over a week is still furious but fact of matter is i helped him a lot and why cannot he just let it go ..I cannot see how i did anything so serious and he has threatened to beat the heck out of me too and again was extremely nice to him too the 6 days previously which i do not understand why the hazzle .I of course apologized to him totally but he is not letting it go--This was my computer he used and i used anyways too..
He is seriously threatening me and no police do not intervene in this at all not unless he makes a death threat.
I am saved to clarify but i dont think God says to be a straight door-mat and i did all i could to better the situation too, yes and i might lose sleep over this seems because
who would not -- I am not a phony Christian either..and my intentions were not to hurt at all anybody. I am trying to figure him out lately still.
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RE: my worries -- - 3/19/2008 9:57:06 AM   
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He is seriously threatening me and no police do not intervene in this at all not unless he makes a death threat.


Get a restraining order, and stay away from him!
This guy is a user and bad news!

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RE: my worries -- - 3/19/2008 12:14:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Memaw.

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He is seriously threatening me and no police do not intervene in this at all not unless he makes a death threat.


Get a restraining order, and stay away from him!
This guy is a user and bad news!


I agree. Be careful, and whatever you do, don't let him stay at your house again. If you feel you need to provide shelter for him, get him a motel room again. It was a very kind thing you did. Don't let him get you down.

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RE: my worries -- - 3/19/2008 3:35:39 PM   
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He had no reason to be upset... he is trying to control. Don't let him. Call the police if he attacks you. Keep records of threats and attacks. You will need proof of anything he does against you, for instance, photos.

Bullies always tell you not to tell. Some will back down when they find out you won't play their terrible game. Others will try to scare you all the more. Stand firm and get help. If you do this by yourself he may hurt you.

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RE: my worries -- - 3/19/2008 7:43:36 PM   
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If I were you, I'd just ignore him. He'll get over it. He has some serious problems and I would no longer have any contact with him. The more you keep trying to make amends, the worse it will get. Just let it go and go on. And be careful who let in your house.

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RE: my worries -- - 11/30/2008 7:31:47 PM   
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Even though is several months i am still baffled by this guy in my easier thoughts, not that i do not let it go, but the idea there are people like this in the world--
My area seems to attract this kind [my town] as some come from all over to a area in calif like mine --lol
My earlier nick in the site was iam44' btw=
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