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solo_soprano22 -> RE: Withdrawing medical treatment from a terminally ill person who is about to die (8/24/2008 6:47:45 PM)
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ORIGINAL: TrustingGod drmark, I don't think the net burden/net benefit comment is related to financial issues. My dear sister died earlier this year. The doctors could have started another round of chemo - but that would have killed her for sure and maybe just prolong the pain/suffering she was in. Therefore, the burden of continued treatment would not have given her a net benefit of prolonged good health. It would have simply made her days more miserable and painful. As a side note: Please think your end time over carefully. Get the DNR on file with your doctor (if that is your wish), make the living wills, make a will, make sure your family knows what you want (burial/cremation). Having dealt with the death of my sister - her adult children didn't know what to do and her husband was even more useless. She had no wishes written down (not even a will). Makes it harder on the family. Four months later we went through this with my mom. Fortunately, her husband knew what to do - however, still no will. Thankfully she passed quickly and he made the right decision NOT to put her on a ventilator - keeping her body alive. I think you made some good points. I wouldn't want anyone to end up in a case like Karen Quinlan if they did know they had wishes like that, but if I were braindead I wouldn't want to be fed artificially indefinitely just to keep my body going. Disagreements and not knowing the persons true wishes make it hard I'm sure. If a person is brain dead, is he considered to be dead? To me, that person is gone on to the other side (body is here; soul is not). At that point, if we take more action (ventilator because they can't breath, artificial feeding/hydration, etc) we're keeping a biological body alive, but the person has gone on already. I'm sure some people think being braindead still means one is "here," but for me (and many others), that's it. If someone is truly alive as long as something is breathing and feeding their bodies, we could probably live on indefinitely. But are we really alive as people... or are we living bodies if we do that? (Well, not indefinitely live on, but "live" long after we're not there.)
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