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nicole6598 -> A question for the mods about something... (8/22/2008 9:38:03 PM)

So I was just wondering, after reading that big long thread in WO.
Is there a way, or have you every thought about helping people reconcile with one another if there is some nastiness or hurt feelings going on etc?
So say someone says something nasty to me, I report them, they are going to be a little ticked off or vice versa, but is there a way that things can be worked out. It can be hard when you pm the person and they ignore you or have you blocked. So what do you do in those situations?

It can be very hard to want to post in places where the person who you offended or offended you is posting.
So yeah, I just wanted to know about that and what your thoughts are?

Also, with the reporting of TOS thing, there are times when you might like to say to the mod "good call, I was wrong" or "well you don't know the full story of why that happened, can I chat with you about it as that person is bothering me but within the TOS" but you can't can you? There is that red writing that says we can't, but there are sometimes when something has happened either with a report, or a thread closed and its like its unfinished business, there isn't closure and it can be upsetting at times to people.
anyway, thanks.



Kath -> RE: A question for the mods about something... (8/22/2008 9:53:18 PM)

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can I chat with you about it as that person is bothering me but within the TOS" but you can't can you?


No, you'd need to email Fritz if you feel the need to explain.

This thread is closed. Protocol is to email Fritz. The moderators are not authorized to address your concerns.


Please review our FAQ for an explanation as to why one cannot confront a moderator directly.

You may also be interested in reading the Community Disclaimer. It reads in part:
Community Moderators. All of the moderators who participate in the community are volunteers. They are not trained counselors, nor are they permitted to engage in any form of professional counseling in the community.

Sincerely
Kath

Please do not comment on this action in the community or send me a PM about it. If you have questions, comments or concerns please email Fritz at community@salemwebnetwork.com allowing time for a reply. Thank you.



Fritzpw_Admin -> RE: A question for the mods about something... (8/25/2008 11:57:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: nicole6598

So I was just wondering, after reading that big long thread in WO.
Is there a way, or have you every thought about helping people reconcile with one another if there is some nastiness or hurt feelings going on etc?

We do not have the staff resources or expertise resources to perform this sort of ministry.

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So say someone says something nasty to me, I report them, they are going to be a little ticked off or vice versa, but is there a way that things can be worked out. It can be hard when you pm the person and they ignore you or have you blocked. So what do you do in those situations?

Pray for them.

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It can be very hard to want to post in places where the person who you offended or offended you is posting.
So yeah, I just wanted to know about that and what your thoughts are?

If it is to difficult to participate in the same area as the other person and then it may be a good idea to stay away from that area.

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Also, with the reporting of TOS thing, there are times when you might like to say to the mod "good call, I was wrong" or "well you don't know the full story of why that happened, can I chat with you about it as that person is bothering me but within the TOS" but you can't can you? There is that red writing that says we can't, but there are sometimes when something has happened either with a report, or a thread closed and its like its unfinished business, there isn't closure and it can be upsetting at times to people.
anyway, thanks.

No, we have learned over the years that this process is best left the way it is. For a person to email one's comments, questions, or concerns to me.

I will then review the matter and pass it on if I deem it necessary.



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