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RE: OH my goodness, I've got a crush? - 8/19/2008 10:27:21 AM
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Tinkerbell_
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But what if you aren't interested in him? Would you still want to know?
I think either way I would. If I'm not interested in him, by speaking up to me is one way to spark an interest and I may become interested in time.
Sometimes I'm not interested in men because I feel they're 'out of my league' and a waste of engery. When I find out one of these men are interested it definitely sparks an interest.
I have only been around a couple of men in my life that I wasn't completely interested in when interest was expressed and I did my best to eleminate any thought of pursual. Only one or two didn't get the hint and I ended up taking, well, drastic measures.
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RE: OH my goodness, I've got a crush? - 8/19/2008 10:27:55 AM
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denial is NOT a good thing....... 
Too much denial and it'll start sounding like John and his not flirting. 
But I don't flirt! For the right woman I may compliment, tease and invite, but I don't flirt
***cough, cough, cough*** Don't even go there! 
I didn't! (because I don't)
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Okay guys - is it cool for girls to crush on you, and do you want to know about it?
Girls, same questions, but regarding guys.
This is actually a hard question. As most of you know I am looking for a woman with a very specific set of characteristics. That is, I have a LIST.
If the woman who is crushing on me meets the list or comes close then I would want to know (As I'd likely be interested in her too.)
If she doesn't fit, then I wouldn't want to know. I know that I am not responsible for how others feel, but if I knew she was crushing I'd feel bad because she was in a hopeless endeavor.
On the flip side, would I want a girl I was crushing on to know it? Probably. Because if I'm crushing she meets my list and the only way to see if I meet hers is to find out what she is looking for.
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RE: OH my goodness, I've got a crush? - 8/19/2008 10:36:11 AM
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I have only been around a couple of men in my life that I wasn't completely interested in when interest was expressed and I did my best to eleminate any thought of pursual. Only one or two didn't get the hint and I ended up taking, well, drastic measures.
I would want to know either way. OBVIOUSLY, I'd want to know if I was interested as well. But for the reason above I'd want to know-- just so I know to keep my actions/words in check so as to not mislead the other person.
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RE: OH my goodness, I've got a crush? - 8/19/2008 10:39:06 AM
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Hahahaha! I actually suggested doing that with a friend. Unfortunately he was homeschooled all his life and didn't have a clue what I was talking about. *grin*
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RE: OH my goodness, I've got a crush? - 8/19/2008 10:46:01 AM
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LOLOLOL!!!!!!!!!!!
Just ask John about 6th grade. 
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RE: OH my goodness, I've got a crush? - 8/19/2008 6:54:50 PM
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Yeah...it's kinda cute...but I'd rather have a guy who wasn't afraid to approach me...or wasn't *nervous* to, rather.
I like guys who are confident, (not cocky), and honest and open about who they like and what they want.
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RE: OH my goodness, I've got a crush? - 8/19/2008 7:05:49 PM
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Okay guys - is it cool for girls to crush on you, and do you want to know about it?
Girls, same questions, but regarding guys.
I only like to find out about it later ...
Like, IF (he he - welcome to the little fantasy world in my head) me and this guy either start talking, and then dating ... or start talking, and become friends ... it would be kinda cool to find out he'd been noticing me too.
However! I remember a situation back in high school when I started dating someone, and I got a nasty phone call from someone about "Why didn't you tell me you didn't like me?" WHA? I had NO idea he was crushing on me ... and didn't like finding out in such a creepy way.
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RE: OH my goodness, I've got a crush? - 8/19/2008 7:09:04 PM
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Passing notes was fun back then. I remember passing a note to a bank teller and told him to give it to another bank teller. In the note, I told the guy that I had two tickets to a football game, and I worked in the 10th floor of the building, and if he would like to come, just give me a call at work. Within half an hour, he called and I had one of the greatest dates I've had in life. He's now my ex, lol. He's my daughter's dad.
I'd still do pass notes if I'm heavily crushing on someone. I think that's kind of cute. I did that at one time at the gym, and the guy graciously accepted my number, but he never called. Turns out that he had a girl friend. Well, a girl's gotta take some risk. I draw the line at making the first move. After that, a man has to pursue me, otherwise, it's not going to go anywhere.
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RE: OH my goodness, I've got a crush? - 8/19/2008 7:09:57 PM
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I personally think it would be cute.
Picture this: You're sitting in church, the pastor is about to start his message, suddenly the man sitting behind you taps your shoulder. You turn around and he whispers, "This is for you." Frowning you look at the folded piece of bulletin and open it. Written on a small corner (because there is so much on the bulletin already) is, "I like you. Will you go out with me? Check yes or no."
You turn around and three rows back you see him grinning and blushing, anxiously awaiting your response. You quickly scribble a response and pass it back. After church he comes to you blushing and stammering and offers to take you to ice cream.
Isn't that cute????
I'm not sure I would like that as a first-time thing (like, we'd never talked but he did that) ...
BUT ... someone I'd been talking to, or dating, or a spouse? I'd love it :) I LOVE the idea of someone sneaking me little love notes ... or like notes :)
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RE: OH my goodness, I've got a crush? - 8/19/2008 11:45:04 PM
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I have only been around a couple of men in my life that I wasn't completely interested in when interest was expressed and I did my best to eleminate any thought of pursual. Only one or two didn't get the hint and I ended up taking, well, drastic measures.
And they never did find the bodies, did they? 
-Robb
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