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TheRefinersFire -> How should I... (7/7/2008 11:47:20 PM)

How should I let a woman know I am interested in her without seeming too up front about it? Especially when there's no groups for someone my age (I am 29), and I only see her in church? Advice?

Just a side note, the women I am interested in are full of the Holy Spirit, and their lives just reflect that.



song -> RE: How should I... (7/8/2008 1:06:47 AM)

"Hey, you wanna go out for coffee sometime?"



3tulips -> RE: How should I... (7/8/2008 5:09:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: song

"Hey, you wanna go out for coffee sometime?"


That is perfect.



Focusing -> RE: How should I... (7/8/2008 11:09:46 PM)

Or even, after church services, "Hey, I've been thinking about trying such-and-such new place, but I hate eating by myself. Would you like to check it out too?"



WaitingforBoaz -> RE: How should I... (7/9/2008 12:53:51 AM)

Do you have lunch plans?



free-to-worship -> RE: How should I... (7/9/2008 1:11:21 AM)

Hey, that going out for coffee bit is a great start. Relax, be yourself, and have fun.



TheRefinersFire -> RE: How should I... (7/9/2008 6:23:27 PM)

So, just approach someone in the foyer of the church after service and ask if she would like to go for lunch or coffee?



Focusing -> RE: How should I... (7/9/2008 6:26:21 PM)

Yep.


Course, you might want to start with a smile and a HI [;)][:D]

Maybe start off talking about the topic of the sermon ... add the invite to see if she'd like to continue the discussion.



WaitingforBoaz -> RE: How should I... (7/9/2008 11:28:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TheRefinersFire

So, just approach someone in the foyer of the church after service and ask if she would like to go for lunch or coffee?


I would not respond positively to this approach. I would compare it to a sales call. Never say yes and hang up as soon as possible.
You could chat with her a few times, sit with her in church and then approach the idea of a date/lunch. I think you would get a warmer response.[:D]



Jenny-Fair -> RE: How should I... (7/10/2008 1:03:10 AM)

If you have never talked to her before, or only once or twice, then find her after church and just make conversation. After you have chatted a few times, THEN ask her to coffee or lunch.

Or, alternatively, if there is a coffee bar at your church, offer to buy her one.



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