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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 8/4/2008 9:33:46 AM
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revbob4God
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After a great deal of thought I am posting this one as well...Crazy women who PM you with insane marriage proposals when they claim they have read your profile on here and your profile clearly says you are happily married and only interested in fellowship and discussion of Christian Issues!
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 8/4/2008 11:54:20 AM
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APZR
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Hmmm... well RevBob it must be your immaculate smile and floppy jowls.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 8/5/2008 4:52:55 PM
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Raptorman
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One of the biggest turn-offs for me is a girl who is chronically busy. You know the kind: Volunteering for several charities, taking 6-7 classes per semester so she can get her Masters or PhD, working part-time at two jobs, taking lessons for God only knows how many musical instruments ... and that's just on Tuesdays! It's a miracle they can even take enough time to be with friends and family. Or get a breve at Starbucks, for that matter. They get so busy that they speed past all of the genuinely important things in life, and there's not enough room for starting a romance.
Yet, part of my deep-seated frustration at still being single is because I keep getting attracted to girls who have these kinds of lives. I don't know how it happens, but I always seem to fall for them, only to find out that they "haven't got enough time for a relationship." Ladies, please slow down! I really would like a companion, soon!  Besides, I think a lot can be gained if we all just slow things down a bit. Of course, I have the opposite problem of being extremely lazy, but that's another tale.
A couple of secondary things, in no specific order. Not an exhaustive list, but it's a start:
-Smoking is a big signal to me that she isn't taking good care of herself.
- Having a bubbly and perky personality is great. It shows people that you enjoy life and have a sense of humor. But too much of it will turn off a lot of men.
-Personally, I find a deep affection for the natural world to be very attractive. If she appreciates God's creation, then we could both have a deep connection. It's much harder to connect with a girl if she would prefer an inner city apartment  over a cottage in the forest, with a pond next to it 
-Being too dependent on talking. I'm not a good conversationalist (usually, "how you doing?" is all I can think of saying), and hopefully I can find a girl who can just sit there with you and enjoy your company.
-Being unfit, physically. This includes a lot of things, like weight, acne, etc. I know it sounds superficial, but a girl in good physical condition shows that she is making an effort to look after her body. Part of my own problem is that I am very overweight myself, but hopefully I can soon lose enough fat to say, "I'm taking care of myself, too."
-Women who are too critical or who take life too seriously. They can cripple a man's spirit, and drive every shred of optimism from his life.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 8/7/2008 2:07:41 PM
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smoking
tatoos
extra peircings
unappropriate attire (too much exposure, sloppy, unkempt, etc.)
DISRESPECT for God!
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 8/10/2008 7:42:22 PM
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Tattoo's, vulgar language, smoking, and a NAG....lol.., My wife once asked me why men grew hair in their ears... I told her it was a defense mechanism to filter out all the nagging we get from women...lol...
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 8/12/2008 10:29:20 AM
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revbob4God
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Amen on the nagging
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Isaiah 45:18
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 8/13/2008 1:05:45 AM
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I went back and read some comments, I found myself agreeing to other lists that I didn't include on my own.
- Maliciousness. Being struck with venom every time I open my mouth to speak is unacceptable.
- Dishonesty. There's something wrong if I feel you're keeping something from me.
- Offensiveness. I will not be talked at nor treated like an animal, nor mocked or be a victim of your bi-polar moods.
- Egocentric. Self explanatory.
- Argumentative. If a day can't go by without an argument, then I want nothing of that relationship.
- Bellyaching/backbiting.
- Unhealthiness. I mentioned it before, but its vastly important that she take care of herself.
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 8/15/2008 1:10:06 PM
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From the outside in:
Overweight.
Poor physical condition
poor hygeine (A woman should not smell)
physically unattractive to me (that is, she's not my type at all looks wise)
Very short hair. (It will grow but who has time to wait for it?)
piercings other than ears. (If she has a navel piercing I shouldn't see it until much later)
tattoos. (I want her to be beautiful the way God made her.)
dresses too revealingly
dresses far too modestly (Someone mentioned old time pentecostal drab. While a long denim skirt can look nice, once you've seen it on her 7 days a week for a few weeks it would get really old)
excessive prissiness
Coarse language
smoking
generally rude behavior
failure to smile
Not being a Christian
being a democrat (which in my opinion is incompatible with Christianity)
bitterness
being unkind to others.
intentional dishonesty
(I'll admit I've not met many women where I've been able to get this far in so I'm coming up short)
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RE: What really turns you off in women? - 8/15/2008 6:24:49 PM
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BaldEagle4Christ
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That women go with abuse controling men.
But again i do not like when women cry wolf all the time ,Then goes back too the same Danger over and over and over.
Sorry but that is how i feel.
Those men who abuse their wives or girl friends and control them!They need Help.
Eagle
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