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RE: 30 Something & Single -Encouragement Thread - 8/29/2006 11:14:54 AM
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Sc1t0r
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Elena1030,
There's no way anyone can bug me about any of it. I choose to talk about it, I expect discussion, ehhe.
No, just wanted to show that things are slow in my dating life. My new friend, she's definetly the shy type, and a little difficult to read. So, I take it slow. She mentioned having an ex that used to tease her too much, or something, so I just take it easy.
Besides, she is my sister in Christ, what am I rushing? I do seek more ladies to bless and be blessed by. Friendship rocks!
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RE: 30 Something & Single -Encouragement Thread - 8/30/2006 10:15:05 PM
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agapemami
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Who else needs encouragement?
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RE: 30 Something & Single -Encouragement Thread - 8/31/2006 6:14:14 PM
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......... Have I ever posted in here?!
.... like what are we encouraging about?? 
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RE: 30 Something & Single -Encouragement Thread - 8/31/2006 8:13:51 PM
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AlwaysR8chel
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Just peeped into your blog. Looking forward to reading it all later 
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....... All of it?? 
Better pop a bag of popcorn and hunker down!!! It's gonna be a late night!!! lol!!
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RE: 30 Something & Single -Encouragement Thread - 9/1/2006 7:34:05 AM
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(((((((((((((((((SKL))))))))))))))))))))))))))
I'm sorry you're having such a bad time.
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RE: 30 Something & Single -Encouragement Thread - 9/1/2006 9:13:26 AM
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AlwaysR8chel
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Ok tonight has been rough. I tried to pay bills online and the computer site would not cooperate. I went onto the online dating site to see if my new "match" had communicated (guy must start contact). He closed the match b/c he did not like something i put in there. Can I just say out of five "matches" 4 have not wanted to communicate with me and I closed one. Now I know God has a plan but it is starting to get frustrating. I don't want anything out of God's will, but it would be nice to have someone communcate with me. I guess i can look at it the following ways:
a. I should not have paid for the service
b. God does not want me in a relationship
c. God does not want me in a relationship yet
d. The guys are too picky
e.No one wants to be involved with a single mom
I am sorry for venting but I just felt that someone at CW would understand. I have appreciated the way support is given on this forum.
I prayed for all of you today on several occasions. I hope that all had a good day.
Thanks for lending an ear (eye?!)
Well it is late and I still have two quizzes to make up for school tomorrow. I wish it was Saturday already! 
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....... can't help with the computer glitches... unless to say that sometimes using a different browser sometimes works.
... but about the online dating site thingymabobber.....
Look. Let God worry about it. If it's not happenin' - it's not happenin' for a reason... and count your blessings that God is protecting you from some unknown thing or issue!!
Trust God.
Don't let yourself believe lies that no man wants to be with a single mom.... hello??? I'm a single mom.... I've got 3 daughters, 2 freaked out dogs, 4 dwarf hamsters and a rat....
.... and ya know what? I was blessed with a boyfriend a little while ago! (yes... we met on relationships.com)
Now.... about the profile thingy.... I was honest.... I put a tidbit of information in there that if my boyfriend would have read it a little more closely, he would have thrown my profile out the window....
.... I wanted to be completely honest... and I was willing to let God work out the details...
Trust God.
Keep seeking Him with all you have.... He is getting you ready for the right guy.... and at the same time... He is getting that guy ready for you!!
(I have to admit that if I would have met my boyfriend at any other time in my life... it wouldn't have worked out..... Trust God and His most excellent timing.)
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RE: 30 Something & Single -Encouragement Thread - 9/1/2006 1:53:57 PM
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AlwaysR8chel
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I'll add that you should have a serious pray about it.
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........ that is what I was missing!!!
Yoooo duuuude!!!!
It goes!! 
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RE: 30 Something & Single -Encouragement Thread - 9/1/2006 9:24:16 PM
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agapemami
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Your blog is a treat Alwaysr8chel...I enjoy you CW bloggers!
I needed a lot of the things you wrote about and especially this, so thanks:
There needs to be four elements to making Godly decisions… I find it ironic that I really never put all these things together before. I also wish that I would have been more diligent in making better decisions. I will not kick myself now, instead, I will learn from pastor Rick and try to apply these points to my life from here on out.
Decisions need to be
based on God’s word
bathed in prayer
bring common sense, wisdom and counsel to bear
backed by circumstances.
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RE: 30 Something & Single -Encouragement Thread - 9/2/2006 2:47:51 AM
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Well, God is good. As always He leads me where I need to be. I needed to read this. I am 33, 4 years single and starting to get tired of waiting. As I read this the word came to me saying. "Be not weary in well doing for you shall reap in due season if you faint not. "
Praise God for His goodness!! And for the ability to wait on him. I know that He has the perfect one for me and I don't want no junk... so I will be content waiting. (Lord please not too long  )
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RE: 30 Something & Single -Encouragement Thread - 9/2/2006 3:01:57 AM
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Latoya2042
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Be encouraged. Been there done that. Hey, still doing it. But God will be faithful to you if you are faithful to Him. Yes, it is scary. I also believe that God is using this time to bring me closer to Him. Do not get sidetracked. I believe that is part of the reason why I have been single so long. You can make it.
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RE: 30 Something & Single -Encouragement Thread - 9/2/2006 6:33:56 AM
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No one wants to be involved with a single mom
Please don't let that discourage you. I am a single Mom and I know there are men out there that don't mind dating a single Mom. Honestly, you don't want a guy that can't accept the fact that you're a single Mom anyway.
As hard as it is, try to remain faithful to God in knowing that He has a plan for you. I'm in the same boat, so I know how you feel ! I am a bit discouraged sometimes because I feel like my biological timeclock is ticking but I trust that God has His plan for me, whatever it is !
Good luck to you !
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. There is a new guy at work who is nice and easy on the eyes but our schedule is so different there is not even a chance to get to know him. I just smile and say hello when I see him. If God wants me to know more about him then the door will open. I am the type of person who does not date well - meaning I am not one who wants to date a lot of people. I would just rather have the right one show up and both of us just know!!! Whoever he is must love my daughter as his own. She is easy to love anyway!!! He must also understand that my ex will be in the picture for the rest of my daughter's life. Also, my family has issues 
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