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Its Hard - 10/25/2008 4:28:26 PM   
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so im sitting here , my dad left the house and my mom went to sleep i think she took a bunch of these pills called " valums" and its so hard to wake her up i feel like crying . can somebody please help with me with some scriptures or something . everything was going good and then it just blew up

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 4:33:26 PM   
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Shinedown~
If she took valium (diazepam) check her bottle and see if you can figure out how many she took. If she overdosed then you need to call 911 like now. Because it will override her system and it could shut down.

I am sooo sorry you are going through this. Your parents need Jesus too.
So please keep praying for them. Is ther anyway you can call a pastor our another adult than can counsel them?

I know it is a hard predicment for you, but can you tell them that their arguing is affecting you? Your growth?
Said a prayer for you
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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 4:37:52 PM   
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ok i will , and yeah not really they never go to church and my dad i dont think really cares about my mom anymore

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 4:42:47 PM   
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Shinedown~
If she took valium (diazepam) check her bottle and see if you can figure out how many she took. If she overdosed then you need to call 911 like now. Because it will override her system and it could shut down.

I am sooo sorry you are going through this. Your parents need Jesus too.
So please keep praying for them. Is ther anyway you can call a pastor our another adult than can counsel them?

I know it is a hard predicment for you, but can you tell them that their arguing is affecting you? Your growth?
Said a prayer for you


I could not agree more. Please check to make sure she hasnt taken all of them, thats my main concern now, and know that Im praying Shinedown. And I hope when the timing is right, you can sit down with your parents and tell them what your experiencing, you need to be open and honest with them, just to let them know hw all this is affecting you. Despite their problems, Im most certain that they love you, and really just dont see how its affecting you.

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 4:44:53 PM   
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i couldnt find the bottle , but i did find some aspirin next to her bed . but i know it was valum because this isnt the first time . i managed to wake her up but she went back to sleep i dont know if she even understood me

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 4:46:12 PM   
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Is she breathing alright? Can you feel a decent pulse inside her wrist just below the thumb? If you can't rouse her, call 911.

This must be so scary, ShineDown. I'm sorry, and I'm praying for you. Go check your mom.

If you call 911, stay on the line and they'll tell you what to do.

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 4:48:00 PM   
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yeah shes breathing fine and i think her pulse is good

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 4:50:29 PM   
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ShineDown~
Your dad may be confused on his feelings as both parents seem to be harden by whatever they are struggling with. Do not lose hope God hears our prayers and maybe this is an opportunity where He can show you His love for you. That He is Real and with you.

There's a song that states: He's never early, never late, been proved time and again trust Him you'll see He has all the power you need! All the Power, All the Power you need.

Eventhough sometimes it seems like we wait forever, He really does things in His time and it seems like an Eternity, the song gives a true statement. He always comes through and it always seems to be Right on Time!

Please let me know how you are
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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 4:51:52 PM   
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Please let us know how your mother is doing. Also, do you go to a church that can help you? You need flesh/blood human beings to help you in times such as these. You need someone to hold you in her arms and let you cry.
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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 4:54:09 PM   
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yeah shes breathing fine and i think her pulse is good


Shinedown,
You really need to sit down with your parents and explain to them how this is affecting your life, I know I said this in a previous post, but I cant stress this enough to you. I feel the Lord is drawing you in, just by things you have said, your experience last night that you shared with everyone, you coming to the forum with interest in the Lord, so I really believe that you are experiencing God's grace, love and mercy.....and sharing this with your parents could be great. I dont want to give you false hope Shinedown, but I have a 16 year old daughter, and she has witnessed a few arguments as well, and I had no idea how she was being affected by it, until she opened up to me, and when she did, it hurt me so much, because my intentions, were never to hurt her. Thas why I believe you need to share this with them. When they see your hurt, they may handle their disagreements in another way. I hope that makes sense.

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 4:54:45 PM   
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yeah i think shes gonna be fine but im just so sick of this happening
we never go to church , ive been wanting to go but my parents dont and i dont want to go by myself . my names zack so you dont have to refer to me as shiendown . i would love to just cry in someones arms but ive been raised to not show emotion like that

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 4:56:57 PM   
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ShineDown~
Your dad may be confused on his feelings as both parents seem to be harden by whatever they are struggling with. Do not lose hope God hears our prayers and maybe this is an opportunity where He can show you His love for you. That He is Real and with you.

There's a song that states: He's never early, never late, been proved time and again trust Him you'll see He has all the power you need! All the Power, All the Power you need.

Eventhough sometimes it seems like we wait forever, He really does things in His time and it seems like an Eternity, the song gives a true statement. He always comes through and it always seems to be Right on Time!

Please let me know how you are


How true that is!! Im sitting here about to cry. Yes, please let us all know.

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 4:59:31 PM   
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what song is that ? and what if my mom did die from something like this . will she go to hell cause isnt that suicide in a way?ugh

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 5:00:18 PM   
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yeah i think shes gonna be fine but im just so sick of this happening
we never go to church , ive been wanting to go but my parents dont and i dont want to go by myself . my names zack so you dont have to refer to me as shiendown . i would love to just cry in someones arms but ive been raised to not show emotion like that


Well would you like to know something? You do have someones arms to hold you while you cry, His name is Jesus. You have no idea, how many times I have went to bed, and said these exact words, "Lord, please just hold me in those strong arms of yours!" And He did! Many nights and days, I have went to bed like that, just to cry myself asleep, but He was always there. And please know, He is with you now.

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 5:06:01 PM   
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No, dont think like that. In your moms case, Im sure she is just wanting to sleep, with no intentions on killing herself, but see Zack, all this needs to be shared with your parents. All your worries and concerns.

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 5:12:10 PM   
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i would love to just cry in someones arms but ive been raised to not show emotion like that


Zaxk, I am a guy and I am starting to cry. I grew up in an abusive home so I know somewhat how you are feeling. The best thing I can tell you is Jesus knows exactly how you are feeling. Zack, my prayer for you is God will somehow bring a strong Christian man into your life.
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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 5:17:04 PM   
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thanks for your guys help , shes still asleep and ive been praying this whole time . but i appreciate you people trying to help me i think ive got more people in here caring for me than anywhere

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 5:21:22 PM   
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what song is that ? and what if my mom did die from something like this . will she go to hell cause isnt that suicide in a way?ugh

He's Real by the Hillside Christian Center, it is from the Shout to Lord album.
I can pm you the whole song, it is against copyright to post it on the forum.

Just keep checking on your mom. If at any point you are alarmed do not hesitate to call 911. Also check her eyes to see if they are dilated, that is another indicator that she needs help
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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 5:32:38 PM   
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yeah i just went in there again and she talked to me a little bit about how bad her life is , but at least she can talk i guess . im sorry to burden you guys with this by the way

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 5:35:04 PM   
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yeah i just went in there again and she talked to me a little bit about how bad her life is , but at least she can talk i guess . im sorry to burden you guys with this by the way


You're not a burden, we are brothers and sisters in Christ, we are here for one another.

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 5:37:15 PM   
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Yup we are here for you. I hope you don't mind I sent you the song via pm
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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 5:38:50 PM   
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Hey Zack, did you notice that I got my picture up there? Lol Still cant get mine there, but I did manage to get this flower, lol

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 5:39:57 PM   
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yes thankyou for that , and i appreciate it a lot you guys helping me and praying for me and all . well i think shes gonna be fine for now but yeah im definately gonna tell them how i feel . maybe this is gods plan to bring me closer to him

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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 5:47:08 PM   
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lol i once i get to fifty post i will be able to put up the picture of me at the ocean , lol i like the earth one on mine its hecka cool . and i put zack in my name cause some people were mistaking me for a female haha

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Hey Zack, did you notice that I got my picture up there? Lol Still cant get mine there, but I did manage to get this flower, lol


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RE: Its Hard - 10/25/2008 5:49:25 PM   
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lol i once i get to fifty post i will be able to put up the picture of me at the ocean , lol i like the earth one on mine its hecka cool . and i put zack in my name cause some people were mistaking me for a female haha

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Hey Zack, did you notice that I got my picture up there? Lol Still cant get mine there, but I did manage to get this flower, lol



lol, I noticed you added your name but I still want to call you Shinedown, I like that......and for some reason, it keeps saying that my image is too big. I got frustrated with it, and said forget, I'll use the flower for now, lol

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