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IN NEED OF A MATURE ADVICE.HOW TO FORGIVE AND KEEP ON L... - 8/25/2008 12:55:09 AM   
nextonone

 

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HI
I THINK I NEED A GOOD CHRISTIAN ADVISE.
How can you forgive your husband for hurting your feelings and still keep on loving him even if he keeps on doing it regularly?

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RE: IN NEED OF A MATURE ADVICE.HOW TO FORGIVE AND KEEP ... - 8/25/2008 6:45:17 AM   
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Something the Lord has used to help me have an attitude of forgiveness is to remind me of how forgiven I am. I love the passage below. It perfectly describes what I'm talking about; it's helpful to remember that we're all debtors.

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Matthew 18

23"...the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his slaves.

24"When he had begun to settle them, one who owed him ten thousand talents was brought to him.

25"But since he did not have the means to repay, his lord commanded him to be sold, along with his wife and children and all that he had, and repayment to be made.

26"So the slave fell to the ground and prostrated himself before him, saying, 'Have patience with me and I will repay you everything.'

27"And the lord of that slave felt compassion and released him and forgave him the debt.

28"But that slave went out and found one of his fellow slaves who owed him a hundred denarii; and he seized him and began to choke him, saying, 'Pay back what you owe.'

29"So his fellow slave fell to the ground and began to plead with him, saying, 'Have patience with me and I will repay you.'

30"But he was unwilling and went and threw him in prison until he should pay back what was owed.

31"So when his fellow slaves saw what had happened, they were deeply grieved and came and reported to their lord all that had happened.

32"Then summoning him, his lord said to him, 'You wicked slave, I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me.

33'Should you not also have had mercy on your fellow slave, in the same way that I had mercy on you?'


Reading the whole chapter would be good since it also covers holding someone accountable for their behavior as well.

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